Reunion with my narcissistic mother, part two



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41 Replies to “Reunion with my narcissistic mother, part two”

  1. Schroeder

    I'm so sorry you had to go through life with this person. She's absolutely a dire case of NPD. My mother is like this, but never put me through this level of terror. In fairness to our mothers, it's a condition they were born with and there is no cure or treatment, only containment, and they have no ability to stop the lying, the deceit, the manipulation, the delusion. It's all they will ever be and it happens at a pre-conscious level. You can tell in this video that even though she lies and feels no guilt about it, that this is just how her mind works and she has no alternative. I'm not saying you should trust her, or be nice to her, but at least in our private moments with our friends we can explore forgiveness of the universe, God, or whoever. NPD has made her into something less than fully human, and she never chose that. It's a pitiful, grotesque and sad mutation of a human being. I would smile with tears in my eyes if I lived to see the day when genetic engineering removes this abomination from humanity. And who knows? With everything going on in science, maybe we will.

  2. Leah Forrest

    Obviously she did horrible things… typical behaviors of a narcissist, but I don't understand the point of the visit. What you want from her she can't give you… she's a narcissist. You all came there to remind her of the awful things she did and the pain she caused you… biut why? You thought she recovered from Narcissism and now was a different person capable of caring? That's like being angry with someone with Tourettes because they always ruined every event in your lives by yelling out 4 letter words. That defines Tourettes just like the horrible behaviors and no remorse is NPD. She will never change. She can not change any more than the person with Tourettes can stop outbursts of 4 letter words. Sorry for your pain.

  3. Properly Done

    I love how you tricked her into telling details from years ago to prove she doesn't have demetia…the narcissist ego is so big that they can't help being a now it all !!!!!!!

  4. DirtyLittleRocker Baby

    To be fair, if she is indeed suffering from early dementia, her long term memory will probably still be good. I think you and your family are truly wonderful to show up for her. It's been almost 8 years for me and I'm not sure I would do the same.

  5. lepur

    I haven't watched all of the videos, but sometimes I have the feeling that whoever posts this kind of videos suffer from some kind of Munchausen by proxy syndrome – asking for attention from strangers. I just don't see any point of all this bitterness and hatred.

  6. Bonnie Par

    We all make mistakes in life. I hope that you realize you are trying to rake this woman over the coals after years. Why didn't you just bring a cross and nail her to it. My God I hope you never get old.

  7. dian

    Hey Sweetie-it seems like a selective memory experiment. Once again she sounds like my mother. They dont WANT to remember the pain THEY put on us.`I dont want to talk about it,dont bring that up, not here please. Do ya have to bring that up, i dont remember that,your exploding things.' Hun does that sound familiar?And we did all kinds of things to make their lives a victomnizing hell.I had to put we because im there with ya-mine likes to scream to put hers across. Thank God for my hubby or id of lost it. I sound crazey but i lived it. Your vids are helping me cope. Its a ah feeling to know im not the only one with a mom that is sick. I dont wish this on anyone. Stay strong, your videos show you are.πŸ˜‰πŸ€—βš˜STAY STRONG GIRL!!!!

  8. TxNursePatti

    I don't know why I watch these types of videos. It makes me so angry. So, so angry. Oddly, it's a bit cathartic. Seeing that other people have to deal and have dealt with this – and that you aren't just imagining the chaos. And that's the best way to describe it – chaos.

  9. Emmy Rosamaria

    Reminds me of my grandmother! She only ever calls my mother to ask her questions about medications (my mom is a pharmacist) and the fact that your mother has no curiosity about your love is my grandma to a T. She can't tell me and my younger sister apart and we have very distinct looks/personalities. We haven't seen her in years. Sorry for blabbering but I understand this completely!

  10. kl k

    Not even 2 minutes in and she said "I" more than 20 times. Tired of counting lol. My condolences to you and your family, I hope things are well for you. God bless

  11. tracy johnson

    she has demintia she doesn't remember you are being abusive Ang you came there to attack her not resolve nothing they should have asked you two to leave you made this tape tape to make her look crazy and bad and you all are the ones that look fucked up and aka Ang is a b..ch

  12. tracy johnson

    ,why are they doing this to this poor I'll woman this is disgusting she doesn't understand what the hell is going on all she is so happy to see them and they only came to treat her like shit get over it shame on y'all

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